Being or not Being, who you are!

If you think you have nothing to lose, you win. If you think you have something to win, you lose. It all drives to motivation. Why are you doing what you are doing right now? To avoid loss? To achieve gain? Wrong reason both times. Life is not about win-and-lose. Life is about being or [...]

Gestalt Prayer

I do my thing and you do your thing, I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, and you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it is beautiful. If not, it can’t [...]

Caution VS Fear

I often wondering what is the difference between Caution and Fear, and from today’s Neale Donald Walsh new letter, I find my answer: Caution is natural, but fear is not. Do not give into fear, yet do not abandon caution. It is a balancing act. Caution is what causes you to look both ways before [...]

Let it be!

Today I had an interesting conversation with a friend. We talked about going with flow, we talked about not attach to any result, suddenly it reminds me a relative of mine. We grow up together, I am a very out-going person and I value connection. But he is a very silent person without speaking about [...]