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	<title>Comments on: Do we have a lot to lose?</title>
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	<description>Live everyday as if it were my last!</description>
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		<title>By: Olina Qian</title>
		<link>http://www.olinaqian.com/dale-carnegie/do-we-have-a-lot-to-lose/comment-page-1/#comment-7220</link>
		<dc:creator>Olina Qian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 06:56:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haha, let&#039;s trade. The secret is such a nice book, it worth to spend time and read it.

Reading is one of my favorite. Just love to learn other&#039;s widsom!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha, let&#8217;s trade. The secret is such a nice book, it worth to spend time and read it.</p>
<p>Reading is one of my favorite. Just love to learn other&#8217;s widsom!</p>
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		<title>By: Olina Qian</title>
		<link>http://www.olinaqian.com/dale-carnegie/do-we-have-a-lot-to-lose/comment-page-1/#comment-7219</link>
		<dc:creator>Olina Qian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 06:54:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, you can go www.wordpress.com. Setup an account there and upload a photo, then by typing in your email address and password, your picture will automatically shows up instead of this strange face! Have fun! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, you can go <a href="http://www.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.wordpress.com</a>. Setup an account there and upload a photo, then by typing in your email address and password, your picture will automatically shows up instead of this strange face! Have fun! <img src='http://www.olinaqian.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Ruoyu Loughry</title>
		<link>http://www.olinaqian.com/dale-carnegie/do-we-have-a-lot-to-lose/comment-page-1/#comment-7218</link>
		<dc:creator>Ruoyu Loughry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 05:50:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, we can trade if we can do it before my X&#039;mas vacation so I have time to read it. I&#039;ve done watching &quot;the Secret&quot;. I will need to watch it again. Every time I watch it, I learn something new. 

I am supprised how much time you spent on reading. You seemed to read a lot.

I agree with you on surrounding yourself with great people. It&#039;s also true people are attracted by you for who you are. 

I have a great Thanks Giving becasue we had a great meal, I watched a great show, and it&#039;s great chatting via blog with you.

Happy Thanks Giving to you and your family!

BTW, how can I change the ugly red face?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, we can trade if we can do it before my X&#8217;mas vacation so I have time to read it. I&#8217;ve done watching &#8220;the Secret&#8221;. I will need to watch it again. Every time I watch it, I learn something new. </p>
<p>I am supprised how much time you spent on reading. You seemed to read a lot.</p>
<p>I agree with you on surrounding yourself with great people. It&#8217;s also true people are attracted by you for who you are. </p>
<p>I have a great Thanks Giving becasue we had a great meal, I watched a great show, and it&#8217;s great chatting via blog with you.</p>
<p>Happy Thanks Giving to you and your family!</p>
<p>BTW, how can I change the ugly red face?</p>
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		<title>By: Olina Qian</title>
		<link>http://www.olinaqian.com/dale-carnegie/do-we-have-a-lot-to-lose/comment-page-1/#comment-7217</link>
		<dc:creator>Olina Qian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 21:01:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haha, I have the book, but I don&#039;t have the DVD. Maybe we should exchange it for ten days! :)

Yes, I like to write down things as well. To make myself clear and see through things!  It is always good to share thoughts with people alike. Like I always said--

Surround yourself with great people! 

Happy Thanksgiving!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha, I have the book, but I don&#8217;t have the DVD. Maybe we should exchange it for ten days! <img src='http://www.olinaqian.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Yes, I like to write down things as well. To make myself clear and see through things!  It is always good to share thoughts with people alike. Like I always said&#8211;</p>
<p>Surround yourself with great people! </p>
<p>Happy Thanksgiving!</p>
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		<title>By: Ruoyu Loughry</title>
		<link>http://www.olinaqian.com/dale-carnegie/do-we-have-a-lot-to-lose/comment-page-1/#comment-7216</link>
		<dc:creator>Ruoyu Loughry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 20:37:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmmm, I don&#039;t like that automatically poped up face. It&#039;s ugly and it&#039;s not me. I have to do something about that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmmm, I don&#8217;t like that automatically poped up face. It&#8217;s ugly and it&#8217;s not me. I have to do something about that.</p>
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		<title>By: Ruoyu Loughry</title>
		<link>http://www.olinaqian.com/dale-carnegie/do-we-have-a-lot-to-lose/comment-page-1/#comment-7215</link>
		<dc:creator>Ruoyu Loughry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 20:35:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t have that book. I do have the DVD - &quot;The Secret&quot;. I think I can watch it again over this long weekend.

Writing down things helps me clear my mind. Asking questions can help me regain positive attitude looking at things.

It&#039;s great to share thoughts with a friend and I treasure friendship.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t have that book. I do have the DVD &#8211; &#8220;The Secret&#8221;. I think I can watch it again over this long weekend.</p>
<p>Writing down things helps me clear my mind. Asking questions can help me regain positive attitude looking at things.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s great to share thoughts with a friend and I treasure friendship.</p>
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		<title>By: Olina Qian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Olina Qian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 07:06:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ruoyu,

Thanks for your comment! Write down the short term and long term plan does help us to visualize our future and attract positive things happen to our life. There is a book called &#039;Secret&#039; talks about everything around you is attracted by your thought. I love that book.

I love your three questions. Especially the last one. Remember we are going to die is the best way to clear out all the external expections, fears and prides and focus on ourselves. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ruoyu,</p>
<p>Thanks for your comment! Write down the short term and long term plan does help us to visualize our future and attract positive things happen to our life. There is a book called &#8216;Secret&#8217; talks about everything around you is attracted by your thought. I love that book.</p>
<p>I love your three questions. Especially the last one. Remember we are going to die is the best way to clear out all the external expections, fears and prides and focus on ourselves. <img src='http://www.olinaqian.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Ruoyu Loughry</title>
		<link>http://www.olinaqian.com/dale-carnegie/do-we-have-a-lot-to-lose/comment-page-1/#comment-7213</link>
		<dc:creator>Ruoyu Loughry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 04:53:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One friend told me that he and his family will write down what they want to accomplish in 1, 3 and 10 years if they were to live for that long. Then they mark it on the calender and actually make it happen.

I was thinking about a question: what would I do today if I were to die tomorrow? Then I read your blog. What a coincidence. 

Can we all answer 3 questions in the morning for the day: 1 thing I want to do, 1 thing I have to do, and 1 thing I hate to do? Going further, you may ask why you hate to do it but still do it and if any thing you can do to change the situation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One friend told me that he and his family will write down what they want to accomplish in 1, 3 and 10 years if they were to live for that long. Then they mark it on the calender and actually make it happen.</p>
<p>I was thinking about a question: what would I do today if I were to die tomorrow? Then I read your blog. What a coincidence. </p>
<p>Can we all answer 3 questions in the morning for the day: 1 thing I want to do, 1 thing I have to do, and 1 thing I hate to do? Going further, you may ask why you hate to do it but still do it and if any thing you can do to change the situation.</p>
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