Enjoy the coffee, not the cup!

Yesterday, I got a last minute request to give an inspirational closing in Dale Carnegie Coaching. I thought about what inspired me the most recently, then the cup of tea story come to mind. So I decided to use it as for my speech. While working on memorizing the story, one sentence just hit my [...]

The Lost Art of the Thank You Note.

In Chinese Culture, we believe that if we have the heart, you will know. So usually guys are not willing to say I love you, because we think if I love you, I tell you once, you know it for the rest of the life. But in fact, things may not working that way, your [...]

Never Condemn, complain and criticize.

In Dale Carnegie Training, we learned ten human relation rules. The first one is: Never Condemn, complaint and criticize. It is easy to say, but it is hard to apply to our daily life. Many of my friends know that I give lots of respect to my Dale Carnegie Instructor: Jewel Maccary, but not many [...]

Enjoying life VS. Enduring life.

I am not sure where did I read this story, but it came to my mind this beautiful morning. The story talked about a couple who lost their lovely son by car accident. After that, their happiness seems being taken away too. They feel no hope in life and it is very painful! Finally one [...]

Do we have a lot to lose?

I think I posted that Steve Job’s video for Stanford’s 2005 graduation already. But when I read this article today, I get goose bumps. I am seating at my desk now, planning the new Vision, Breakthrough assignment for Dale Carnegie Course for the next three months. In the meanwhile, my friend asked me to write [...]

Change the world vs. Change yourself!

Oh, I am so excited! I am so excited! I am so excited now! Why? Let me tell you why! Because another Dale Carnegie class is right around the corner! And I am going back to be the coach again! Oh, I can’t wait to live with Dale Carnegie Spirit for another 12 exciting weeks! [...]

Discover the Power Within Yourself

Jewel told us this story in the 2nd session of Dale Carnegie Trainning. I found it’s very inspiring. So I decide to use it as my inspiration closing when I host this weekend’s BayFuBai Business event. According to an old Hindu legend… ..there was once a time when all human beings were gods, but they [...]

An easiest way to improve your human relations.

I have two nieces. Emily is three and half years old. Jasmine is five months old. After my first nieces Emily was born, I almost went to see her everyday. Not only because I like her so much, but also because I have time during that period. But after my 2nd niece Jasmine came out, [...]